July 21, 2021 2 min read
In the past few years, we as a society have moved forward and grown and we are definitely reaching a new era of sexual awakening. But, are we comfortable talking about all the stigmas around Sex? I mean for sure, all sexual activities should be practiced behind closed doors, but we as a society can definitely have a conversation in open quarters. According to Alex Miller “Anything between two (or more) consenting adults, involving safe words (if necessary), performed in private, is encouraged.”
Finding that one person for yourself has always been difficult. Why is having multiple sexual partners a taboo in our society? As Jug from Dear Zindagi said “Hum itni kursiyan dekhte hai ek khareedne se pehle phir apna life partner choose karne se pehle options dekhne mein kya problem?” Casual dating is all the buzz now so if someone is hooking up with one person on a Monday and a different one on Thursday, it doesn’t say anything about their character. It’s great if you have found someone who is loyal and trustworthy, but that doesn’t give you the right to judge people who are still looking.
Do you orgasm every time you have sex? If no, then you are not alone. With so much research around this subject, it has been figured out that penetrative sex is not enough to orgasm for some people. So if you aren’t reaching your orgasm, talk to your partner, try something new. If you both are comfortable, then add a third party ( person or toy, your choice). We all know that women do take longer to orgasm, but why is that such a stigma in our society. It has been believed that sex bring the animalistic needs and behavior of a man. What about women’s needs? When will we be comfortable to talk about the fact that maybe women require something more.
These things and many others are more common than you can even imagine. These ideas lurk in the shadows because we do not let them out. Trying out things that you think are a taboo will teach you about the world and even more about your own self. By this I don’t mean that you should jump the gun, but if you have a conversation about things like BDSM, Anal Play, Masturbation, Toys and many other, you will understand your own pleasure and even your partners.
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